Philosophy
Growing up in Albuquerque, I got my start playing volleyball with our high school boys team. From there I played city league, county league, and eventually joined a club team lead by a very disciplined coach. His boys and girls teams traveled and competed at the AAU Junior Olympics in Chicago, as well as to the USVBA (United States Volleyball Association) tournaments (now called USAV), where we competed at the A and AA levels. He made us push cars, run stairs, practice court positioning drills during summer break, and truly form players into college bound athletes. I credit him for making us set goals and work hard to achieve them. He provided four rules for his players, and I’ll repeat them here:
Don’t Be Selfish
A player who is selfish demands court time, hogs the ball, controls the conversation, listens only to their iPod, doesn’t converse with the team, thinks it’s all about “me”. Volleyball is one of the most demanding team sports there is. You can’t make an effective play on the ball, or series of plays with only 1 player. You need the team.
Don’t Be Self-Conscious
Don’t worry about your hair, or your nails, or what your boyfriend or girlfriend might think. Don’t worry about your height, or weight, or color of your skin. Don’t worry if you make a mistake. Don’t shrug your shoulders. Don’t hang your head. Don’t worry about your parents or fans. Play the game for yourself, because you like to compete. Play the game for your teammates, because you know THEY like to compete.
Don’t Judge
For the same reason you shouldn’t be self conscious, don’t judge. If a teammate makes a mistake, support them. Cheer them on. Keep the team “up”. Volleyball is a game of rally’s. Don’t let 1 point turn into 3 or 4 or 6.
Don’t Coach
Don’t coach. That’s my job. Players have enough to worry about. Cheer on your teammates, keep focused on what you are doing. Compete! Focus! Win!
Matthew Marks